(06-23-2015, 01:03 PM)Farm93 link Wrote:At all levels of sports you will find some parents that are a bit too involved. As a parent/coach/ref in youth sports I work tirelessly to get my parents to stay civil, but it is often a challenge even with weekend soccer or flag football in youth leagues. My rather well off town has even had parents arrested at U-10 soccer games. U10 recreational soccer! Some parent was disruptive enough to get arrested in front of 3rd graders, and their own child. Crazy.
Whack job parents...
* I remember dropping off my son for a club volleyball practice. They under-14s. One of the helicopter dads -- with a son that had no talent -- was barking at the coach and the club director. Two hours later, I came back to pick up my son, and sure enough, the guy was still barking at the club director and coach.
* When my son was twelve, his little league team participated in the local district TofC. This wasn't the tournament that led to the LLWS, this was a tourney among the winners of eight leagues in the South Bay. The district head gathered us together to re-explain the basic rules. The Los Gatos coach asked "let's say my team is down in the fourth inning by nine runs, so I'm almost at the ten run rule. What's my incentive to play the three guys on my bench?" The district head said, "You have to, there's minimum play rules." The coach replied, "I don't care, I want to win." I said, "How about because it's the right thing to do?" He looked at me and said, "Oh yeah,
sure." then rolled his eyes.
* Two years earlier, a little league tournament game among eight year olds. The score is 22-0 in the third inning. The losing team miraculously gets a runner to first base, then dances off of first. You can't take a lead in little league, but the rule is that the batter has to be on the base when the ball is pitched. Nevertheless, the pitcher throws over to first, it goes into right field, and the kid runs around to home. 22-1. The Los Gatos coach stops the game to go find the tournament director to get the run taken off of the board. Yay, sportsmanship!!
Anyway, I could come up with a zillion of these stories...the football coach who taught his center to grab the neck of the nose guard in an eighth grade game because the older refs wouldn't notice it...the soccer parents who cursed players of the other team when they were near their sidelines...the basketball parent who challenged another parent to a fistfight because the other parent yelled "Miss!" when his son was shooting a free throw in a tight game...lots of fun in youth sports.