06-01-2022, 09:30 PM
That proposed policy didn't specify the parents. It could be an older sibling, a close aunt/uncle, a best friend, a high school coach, a romantic interest?
It is clear that the student could decline that assignment.
Some things I would suggest:
1. Stop thinking about this for student-athletes. All young adults could use such a volunteer policy. The original quote here did not limit the policy to student-athletes.
2. The policy should require notification of the advocate when they are assigned or de-assigned. Their acceptance of the assignment is a must. That also assures that contact is possible.
3. I would wait 3 months into the freshman year before the assignment is made. That allows the student to step away from always being under any so-called helicopter parent.
4. Some thought needs to be given as to who has access to knowing the assigned person? Is it public information or private? Is there a bureaucracy or can the medical center quietly do it? A dorm counselor? A coach? A roommate? The campus cops? The municipality cops?
5. I would suggest that two names be given. Imagine if the student is having problems with the individual named on the list (a romantic interest; any other that might be the source of the pressures).
I think it is a reasonable idea. I probably would have signed up for it, naming my parents.
It is clear that the student could decline that assignment.
Some things I would suggest:
1. Stop thinking about this for student-athletes. All young adults could use such a volunteer policy. The original quote here did not limit the policy to student-athletes.
2. The policy should require notification of the advocate when they are assigned or de-assigned. Their acceptance of the assignment is a must. That also assures that contact is possible.
3. I would wait 3 months into the freshman year before the assignment is made. That allows the student to step away from always being under any so-called helicopter parent.
4. Some thought needs to be given as to who has access to knowing the assigned person? Is it public information or private? Is there a bureaucracy or can the medical center quietly do it? A dorm counselor? A coach? A roommate? The campus cops? The municipality cops?
5. I would suggest that two names be given. Imagine if the student is having problems with the individual named on the list (a romantic interest; any other that might be the source of the pressures).
I think it is a reasonable idea. I probably would have signed up for it, naming my parents.
