It's been so long, but my memory as a TA in my first quarter of teaching a lab at Stanford and giving a (gasp!) "C" on one of many assignments to come that fall to apparently an entitled complainer does not mesh with many of the stories of academic brutality I've seen on the Board recently. I was called to the carpet for that C, which as I explained to the professor who owned the carpet, was frankly it was crap work and I thought I was being a nice guy. Prof's response was that while I may have come from Hardass U (or I, I suppose), these are Stanford students and they don't do crap work. Prof was on his way out and I think what he really meant to say, without saying it, was 'take care of this so I don't have grade-grubbing students in my office while I watch the approaching sunset.' My solution was to be extremely helpful marking up lab reports and tests to emphasize what they were suppose to be learning and worry less about the letter grades. It turns out, this was great for me! That year of being the TA for E21 (fluid mechanics) probably taught me more about hydraulics, pressure flow, open channel flow, groundwater flow and the rest than anything else. I had to make the test and homework keys and assign the relative points to each solution, and that taught me a lot too. Major points for getting the concept and approach right. Minor dings for messing up some mundane detail like putting a decimal point in the wrong place or something. I mean corporate is sure as hell gonna notice $305,326.13 but as long as they know Bernoulli and when to use that instead of momentum; all good!
Anyway this technique got me a free lunch at the end of the year as a reward for (apparently really) good student reviews.
I do recall some prospective employer once calling about a Stanford student who had worked for me before going back to grad school. "Oh, I see he has almost a 4.0 but I suppose they all do there."
All anyone wants is fair. Work hard and do well - be rewarded. I recall getting a 7 (out of 100) on an emag test grinding through the required sequence in Physics. That was a solid C but I was not learning material because good old Rudolph "Hess" Arrans was having so much fun tricking us all and taking great delight in telling us we are all stupid and these scores prove it. Sheesh. Good lessons in perseverance and learning to plow though tricky clients and Councils, but not helping me understand a damn thing about electromagnetism. I'm more a fan of objective scores that reward mastery of material (and/or great memorization - whatever it takes) than forced curve setting and Lord of the Flies culture.
Stanford's current undergraduate GPA is 3.65, FWIW. Some employers obsess about that while many don't. I guess law schools and med schools might too. My son's graduate GPA was about 0.7 point higher than what he pulled at USNA. I only know because he told me both times, nonchalantly. I'll always remain more impressed that he finished first in his class at The Basic School. And if I'm doling out pride, my daughter was basically a straight A student. More importantly, they are both great people. Kudos to Mrs. Jacketree on that.
Grad school is different (calling professors by their first names!) and I have no idea what I did at Stanford because I decided never to open those envelopes and no one ever asked. Still haven't seen anyone's GPA or SAT score on a headstone nor heard them raised in any eulogy.
The blowback from Harvard students will be interesting.
One Stanford student's recent opinion on this topic