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It is interesting to think about why boys & girls (together or separately) choose one sport or another (or none). There are many factors. Are we talking about a participatory sport or one that is competitive? Individual (vs team) sports seem more likely to allow participation without all the negative feedback if you aren't one of the better ones in your group.
I think that you have to look at the introduction & development of the child to the sport. Why do parents sign their kids up in sports (social interactions, burn off energy, organized child-sitting, and, oh yeah, health)? Why do kids want to or not want to participate in a sport? (I personally think that the "I'm not good at this" feeling is probably all-important. I'd think bullying would be a factor in some situations.)
I'd think a sport that was easy to get into would be an important factor. I don't expect (non-water) polo to be popular. Golf is not an option for most high schoolers. Certainly there are lots of basketball courts around. But I found that while dribbling is not too hard, shooting is difficult, and is quite hard for the younger children.
It's interesting that no one has mentioned softball. Much of the time in baseball/softball is low effort and low impact. Certainly T-ball offers an entry that avoids one of the most difficult aspects of baseball/softball.
Gymnastics is a sport that is offered to young children. The talented/determined ones will succeed, but the other kids will not be able to compete when their body mass increases with age.
The social aspects of sport would seem to be a factor. I think many kids would want a sport where the boys & girls can play together if it can be at a relatively equal level, but I can understand that it isn't true for all kids all of the time. Certainly, as an adult, playing racquet sports offers co-ed opportunities, but they don't seem too available for kids.
What about non-traditional sports? Skateboarding, biking (racing, mountain, or stunt), or even e-sports. Those may not be offered in high school or college, but they are alternative interests for teens. There are others such as fencing, martial arts.
At some point, for a small fraction of children, the possibility that a sport might be worth a college education begins to become important to the parents and then to the kid.