09-19-2014, 11:58 AM
I was local kid who just packed up the back of my dad's Honda with some stuff and drove over in the afternoon to Donner.
I didn't send in a frosh picture for the door, so my roommate (Walt, from Denver) and his mom - who had been there since the doors had opened - had no idea who the mystery roomie was. As I was perusing the room assignment roster, I heard a woman complain "My son's roommate is from Palo Alto, and he isn't even here yet!"
I turned and said - "you might be looking for me."
She said:Â "Are you, TJ?"
I said:Â "Yes."
She then gave me a big, prolonged, hug, with a sigh. I'll never know for sure, but I suspect there was great relief in learning that her son's roomie, TJ, was not some big, dumb jock (just a small, dumb, "regular" student). Managed to maintain friendship with frosh dormmate after all these years (same for a group of Donnerites from back in the day), and some of our favorite reminiscences (?) are about his mom. One near the top 'o list: when I went to SFO to pick him up after Christmas break frosh year - back in the day when you could meet arriving passengers at the gate - he comes off the plane with . . . get ready for it . . . a warmed ham wrapped in foil. I kid you not, that was his carry on. When I met Walt at the gate, his first words were: "do you want some ham?"
Don't know who was responsible for assigning roommates - think it was the RAs - but am very grateful for the decision they made to pair me with Walt. I definitely got the better end of that deal.
I didn't send in a frosh picture for the door, so my roommate (Walt, from Denver) and his mom - who had been there since the doors had opened - had no idea who the mystery roomie was. As I was perusing the room assignment roster, I heard a woman complain "My son's roommate is from Palo Alto, and he isn't even here yet!"
I turned and said - "you might be looking for me."
She said:Â "Are you, TJ?"
I said:Â "Yes."
She then gave me a big, prolonged, hug, with a sigh. I'll never know for sure, but I suspect there was great relief in learning that her son's roomie, TJ, was not some big, dumb jock (just a small, dumb, "regular" student). Managed to maintain friendship with frosh dormmate after all these years (same for a group of Donnerites from back in the day), and some of our favorite reminiscences (?) are about his mom. One near the top 'o list: when I went to SFO to pick him up after Christmas break frosh year - back in the day when you could meet arriving passengers at the gate - he comes off the plane with . . . get ready for it . . . a warmed ham wrapped in foil. I kid you not, that was his carry on. When I met Walt at the gate, his first words were: "do you want some ham?"
Don't know who was responsible for assigning roommates - think it was the RAs - but am very grateful for the decision they made to pair me with Walt. I definitely got the better end of that deal.
