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01-18-2023, 08:57 PM
(This post was last modified: 01-18-2023, 09:11 PM by
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Just getting back to normal after driving to Southern California in the worst storm of the century. The good news is that we were able to find a break in the storm both ways, so we can’t complain.
We were treated to a dogfight on Friday night. Two fighters went at each other for three rounds before one of them was exhausted and flamed out, the other played some stunningly good basketball and prevailed. Stanford looked formidable, and truly like a top team in the country, which they are.
We have family in LA, and had treated our special twelve-year old niece to last summer's week-long basketball camp at Maples with Tara, her coaching staff, and her current players (unfortunately, part of the camp had to be suspended due to an electrical issue, but our niece was undaunted). We took her and her older sister to the Sunday afternoon game against USC, hoping to further their interest in basketball in general and Stanford basketball in specific.
The game against USC was painful. My wife and I cringed at the lack of scoring and of the general poor execution by the team. It seemed, at one level, that our players were stymied by a very well-designed and effective defense. It also seemed that our players were not psychically ready to play another game that weekend after having spent their energies against UCLA. Basketball is not only a game of spurts, but it is also a game of team psychic energy, and they seemed to be critically short of that.
After the game we took the girls out to dinner. We felt disappointed and apologetic that we had taken them to one of the worst games we had seen over the years. We told the girls that we were sorry that they had to see such a horrible game.
Their perspective is one that got us through our disappointment and negativity. The twelve year old said, and her sister agreed, that "oh, this was fun, I’m glad we went! We really enjoyed coming to the game with you!" During the game, they cheered at every basket, referred to the team as "we" or "our team", and marveled at their personal favorites, Talana and Cam. They are both ready to attend another game whenever they get a chance!
Perhaps, in the youthful perspectives of these two young girls, we can all find the essence of the game experience and not be so attached to winning and perfection. It’s a challenge that my wife and I are going to take to heart