Perhaps you are wondering, "yes, but what about the Capital One Cup?"
Stanford leads in both men's and women's standings through May 16 -
http://www.capitalonecup.com/docs/comple...ndings.pdf
This does include women's water polo. But does not include men's and women's tennis, men's and women's golf, beach volleyball, rowing or men's and women's T&F, all of which are Group A sports which means the winner gets 20 points.
The current standings also do not include men's and women's lacrosse, baseball or softball which are Group B sports and worth 3x Group A sports. The winner gets 60 points, etc.
I think the Stanford women have an insurmountable lead. It's hard to estimate the current standings as BigEasyCard has done for the Director's Cup, because Capital One points are awarded often based on final polls, not championship results. Stanford will earn points in tennis, golf and rowing. UCLA will earn points in beach volleyball and softball. UCLA probably closes the gap some, but not completely.
The men's lead is more precarious because they have earned no points in tennis and golf. They may get 0 points for baseball. They could be passed by several schools depending on the baseball results. For example, Duke earned 36 points for being the lacrosse runner up and is still alive in baseball.
The Stanford women have won the Capital One Cup 4 times in its 7 years of existence, including last year.
The Stanford men won once, two years ago. The Ohio State men won last year.