(10-14-2021, 07:51 AM)BostonCard Wrote: Good article here:
https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archiv...74f24220a2
The NFL is full of John Grudens; he made the mistake of putting it in writing. Like, if we knew about it, how many coaches/owners/etc. would still have their jobs.
BC
Maybe. I suspect the NFL is also full of good people that do not fit the stereotype that the author advances. But today it is necessary to always look for and advance the negative.
I don’t like Gruden. Always thought the Chuckie bit was silly. And that he was overrated. But he has a long record as a coach. How did he treat and interact with his players, most of whom are AA over the years? Has there been any indication that he had racist tendencies? Did any player complain of his treatment?
He’s a football coach. What do you think the daily banter is in the locker room? Do you think the players are discussing quantum physics? Or there last viewing of a Lifetime movie with their honey? How many times a day do you think the P word gets thrown out in the locker room. Or other slurs? These are a collection of alpha males that make their living physically pounding on their opponents. Trash talking is commonplace. Part of the culture. What Incognito did to Martin for example is, I suspect, rare not for the razzing, but for the reaction.
Grudens comments are crude, insensitive, etc. But they don’t define him.
It is, of course, right and good to be doing what we can to make our discourse more civil. And to make it clear that it’s not all right to speak in bigoted terms. But it’s somewhat disturbing, at least to me, that there is this tendency to reach back years, find dirt, and use it to destroy people. There is something quasi-McCarthyesque about it to me.
Also, how many of you can look in the mirror and say that you have never said, done or written things that in hindsight (thankfully with today’s more enlightened attitudes) you at the least wish you hadn’t said or done. If there are any of you that can do that - well, congratulations (or your kidding yourselves)
Gruden was a football coach. I’m not surprised by his words. That’s the world he inhabits. But again do his actions over his career matter. Or have we reached a point where anyone can reach into our past, look for our frailties and burn us with them.
I don’t care much what happens to Gruden. But I do think we need to think about how to deal with the past sins of people as reflected in their comments. Does that mean automatic disqualification? Or does that persons record - as shown by his or her actions count? And is forgiveness still a part of our ethos? Or are we just out to destroy.
We are all biased in one form or another. Hopefully we search for our Better Angels to weed out that bias. In the end trying to treat others how we want to be treated is the easy answer. Harder in reality to do. We are, after all human…..
If this violates the Terry Rule, my apology.