[oman]

IF he was harassed?  It's pretty damn clear he was harassed.  And the rest of that sentence does a great job of blaming the victim -- while your entire email says nothing about the possibility that this was entirely Incogito's fault (which admittedly is just a possibility at this point, but it's a possibility that seems increasingly likely the more information we get).

I wasn't there. 

And my response was primarily directed at the idea that a degree from an Ivy or Stanford makes it harder on these guys or somehow makes them more likely to be a victim. 

[oman]

IF he was harassed?  It's pretty damn clear he was harassed.  And the rest of that sentence does a great job of blaming the victim -- while your entire email says nothing about the possibility that this was entirely Incogito's fault (which admittedly is just a possibility at this point, but it's a possibility that seems increasingly likely the more information we get).

I wasn't there. 

And my response was primarily directed at the idea that a degree from an Ivy or Stanford makes it harder on these guys or somehow makes them more likely to be a victim.