(04-14-2021, 05:06 PM)BostonCard Wrote: I meant it as a figure of speech; sorry for singling you out. I do appreciate the way you have approached this thread, which I think has generally allowed a more civil engagement than what one would expect for the controversy of this subject. To the extent that I undermined that, I am sorry.
I still wonder why a theoretical possibility that your daughter hasn't encountered would prompt you to "come down on the side that competitions should be held on a biological basis" while an actual disadvantage that your daughter deals with everyday merits a shrug (and, if I am reading between the lines, I detect a little pride in the fact that she is out-competing older girls). Is this a bit fear of the unknown? Like, if there were a couple of transgender girls on your daughter's team or the teams she plays against, and she were still doing well, would your opposition be the same? Or are the sex advantages in her chosen sports so profound, and the rewards for success in those sports so great, that you are concerned about the proverbial floodgates opening. Is it a safety issue (as was the case for the World Rugby League)?
There may be ways that the unfairness of sex at birth is qualitatively different than the unfairness that is the result of age or money. If that's the case, I'm wondering what those differences are.
By the way, I am surprised GR hasn't weighed in here. In another forum, he discussed a different approach to the issue of sex and transgender, which is to do away with dividing sports by sex per se, and have two divisions: an open division that has no restrictions, and a restricted division where there might be age, gender, hormone, etc. restrictions to keep the competition a bit more balanced. Hopefully I conveyed his plan accurately. It is an interesting concept.
BC
Geez BC, no worries. Really appreciate your caring, though. I'm quite accustomed to argument, as I'm the token conservative at many functions I attend, where most at least appreciate my willingness to share my perspective. Surprisingly perhaps, most of my friends, and the parents of my daughter's friends, lean pretty far left.
Anyway, regarding not being chapped by parents redshirting their kids. Most of my daughter's sports, at least so far, have all been age based. Redshirting is irrelevant. In fact, surprisingly, it is a detriment early on. In a normal year, my daughter, a young freshman, would have a full year of high school training behind her while competing against 14Us who are in 8th grade. Even this year without much of the normal training, she's a heck of a lot stronger than she would be if we held her back. As for high school performance in the later years, surely it will catch up and be a little more difficult to be on the young side.
As for fear of the unknown regarding transgender competition, I simply try to understand how I would feel if I were a parent of the Connecticut girls who were beaten by a transgender. I would struggle to find the words to assuage their disappointment.
And for sports safety, how about this? Biological boys throw a lot harder than biological girls. My daughter, a water polo goalie, has already had her first concussion because a talented girl back handed a shot that my daughter blocked with her forehead. Shots from a biological boy playing hole set could be much more devastating. Sports safety is irrelevant to some here, I guess.
Now for the opinion that really matters, I spoke with my 14 year old daughter about this topic as I drove her to practice. Quick sidelight, the best thing resulting from the pandemic, is that my daughter and I now take regular drives through the East Bay countryside and backroads where we talk about anything and everything, it's been fantastic for both of us.
Though she's become fairly liberal with her politics and has several transgender friends, she would prefer a mitigated approach to transgender girls competing against cisgender girls. What surprised me was the depth of her knowledge on the subject. She quoted studies way beyond what was discussed here. I guess tik tok goes beyond mindless videos. Anyway, she favored a reasoned approach with certain levels of hormone therapy and / or with puberty suppression as a minimum course of action. Importantly, some course of therapy needed to have happened, and at least for an extended period of time in her opinion. That way, it can be fair to both the cisgender and transgender folks. As for girls with boys bodies, her comment was that everybody has a different body, and has to use it as best they can, an issue, but a small one. . . .